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Sunday, 30 October 2011

Love Hurt

End of love means end of the world for some, where people are unable to comes to terms with the end in relationship often get depressed and are more likely to try drastic methods since they cannot stand the pain end of relationship brings together. There is a proverb that proves love to be a truthful thing it is “where there is love there is pain”. Love can bring up pain in different forms not just through break up.

Love gives pain whenever your beloved is in pain or suffering. Love ensures that you will suffer as much or maybe more when your beloved is suffering just because you cannot do anything to ease out the pain and the emotional turbulence your beloved is going through.



Lets face it; we all have troubles when it comes to any relationship. Good relationships can be hard to come by. But, that should never be a reason why you don’t cater to them. I personally know that when dealing with any relationship you have to cater to it.
Having any type of friendship means you have to treat like it’s your teeth, well not exactly, but a relationship requires upkeep. You always have to keep in mind that nothing is perfect. Yes there are going to be good, bad, and sad times, but this is all apart of building a relationship with anyone. In order to get where you are going there has to be a couple of bumps in the road. The good thing about the bumps in the road is that you learn life long lessons, which is why you should never look at the bad or sad times as negative. Look at them as a time of learning and experience for your future.
Another great thing about these experiences is that you never know whom you can help that had the same problem as you. I can remember like it was yesterday when I lost my best friend. I cant say that it was a day where I was proud, but it was apart of getting older. Losing my best buddy was hard, she was like my only friend. I had known here since I was in form one and by the time I got to college we lost each other. It was really dumb and if I could change the way I did things, I would. I must say that if didn’t lose her, some things that have happen in my life wouldn’t have happened that way because I wouldn’t have been faced with those situations. Although it hurt to lose her, I still continued to have friends, but I could never trust the same.
Trust is key when building any relationship. Without trust there is nothing. So whenever building a relationship with anyone, make sure you can trust him or her. If you ever feel yourself questioning what someone is telling you, that means you have no trust for him or her. I can’t stress how important trust is. Another key thing in any type of relationship is communication. You must learn to have a clear communication with people, that’s the only way to have a healthy relationship.
Over time I have learned the ups and downs to a healthy loving relationship; you have to go through a lot to get be great. So sit back, enjoy the ride, remember that nothing is perfect. Never ever forget to live, love, and laugh; those are the things I live by.

p/s : I saw something that make me realized about 'passion and LOVE'. I've learned new thing and I will write about it next day. 

Thursday, 27 October 2011

Good Relationship = Hard Work

It can sometimes be difficult to maintain a long-term loving relationship. There are days they will drive you nuts, and there are days where they will pull away from you. You can’t physically keep someone from leaving your relationship, but you can improve it and try to reconnect to your partner in little ways.
You may think that throwing a lot of money or romance at the situation is the best medicine, but sometimes that can greatly backfire. The best way to make sure your relationship continues to grow and blossom is by actively making the effort every day. When you wake up in the morning, instead of letting your mind drift to frustrations or stress, think of one reason why you love your significant other. It doesn’t have to be major—something small will equally suffice. You don’t even have to tell them (although it wouldn’t hurt to do so occasionally). But just thinking about reasons why you love your partner will open you up each and every day to them.
You also must be patient and understanding. Try to see their qualms from their point of view. Instead of having a monocular view, try to have binocular one. This means being able to understand to understand why they’re feeling what they are. Once you shift your focus from just thinking of yourself, you can focus on thinking about your partner and your relationship as a whole.
Be affectionate. Touch your partner in non-sexual ways. Snuggle on the couch when watching TV, hold their hands, or simply hug them. You can really soothe many issues with really comforting and safe body contact.
Sometimes it’s easy to forget that love takes work. It’s like a precious flower that must live in the right soil and get the right amount of sun in order to grow and flourish. Make sure you take the time to enable your love and relationship to continue to grow.

p/s: If He's da one you want, ♥ You Should Trust HIM,be patient and Waiting =) 

Wednesday, 26 October 2011

Here's 2nd Blog - newborn ♥

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♥ MyMy
♥ Ai is 20 tiga tahun
♥ I love my familia and my bestie ~ Siti Fatimah ♥ Ahmad Johari
♥ This is my second blog, and blog asal dah tutup tapi semua entry lama dah pindah ke blog ni. so apa2 link yang ada kat entry lama kiranya dah expired.

 usually i'm using Sabahan's language hehe ~ proud to be Sabahan's. Yay! 
 sometimes entry ini seolah olah berada di dalam kelas sastera.
so, sila teruskan sesi pembacaan anda yaa..
all the photos here was mine. so do my story.. unless i'm giving a credit, so makna nya i'm taking it from the other site hehe i feel like sharing.. everything that i feel like writing about.. i would consider my blog as more of personal blog.. if u actually go through ALL my post that i have post, I LOVE YOU. thanks for read dear 


That sad moment when you can feel you and your bestfriend drifting apart
If I cried a thousand tears, would you only fear that you would hear? If I lied a thousand lies, would you take me with no surprise? If I loved you like the moon sways the dewy grass in the late of night, would you only close your eyes? If have I sang you the songs of the heavens, would you ignore me with no loving? If the sun showed you my path, would you take it or misuse the wrath? If I looked in your eyes, and told you I tore down the great wall would you soon realize? If I smiled and told you please love me the way you did, would you only nod and tell me to get rid? If I smelt your passion,would you treat me like our old fashion? If i swelled in your heart, would you promise me we will never be apart? But now that this, us, has dulled into a slight breeze that only whispers are hearts of sin, would you still forgive me then?

p/s : credit the picture to Joe

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